8 05 2014

Husband 3WHY DO MEN LOSE THEIR WIVES TO OTHER MEN? Aha! Another comment that I would like to put up. It is not only the women who lose their husbands to other women but also husbands who lose their wives to other men! It is another saddening scenario that we see happening. There are many reasons to it. Before going on let me take you to the written word of God from Genesis 2:21-24, when God created the man Adam. As it is written “But for Adam, no suitable helper was found. So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and close up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man and he brought her to the man. The man said,This is now bone of my bones,and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called woman for she was taken out of man. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.’ 

God in the beginning itself has placed woman in a man’s hand to be loved and taken care of. Women are beautiful creatures designed by God to be a helper for her husband.Today we see many marriages are hitting rock bottom.Husbands are losing their wives to other men.Why is this happening? There are a number of reasons to it. First and foremost, husbands should know the feelings of a wife and not hurt her by his actions and words.If you are angry over something at work do not come home and show it on your wife.Remember that your wife, some are working mums and some are full time homemakers. It is never an easy job.

Some hubs are workaholics and they do not spend enough time with their wives at home. They are mostly at their work place and comes back late. Husbands at times got to understand that women need their hubs to be around with them too. When husbands comes back late they are tired and just go off to sleep. Women can get put off at times.You do not show interest on your wife that you loved and got married to
.Especially homemakers, think about their situation.Where they are left to look after the whole household,basically everything. Do you not think that at times they need a hug, a kiss or even a cuddle! Or even to have a cup of coffee together!
There are some husbands who can spend a lot of time with others but they can never find time to be with their wives.So when your wife finds a companion or a friend and that person shows interest on your wife, you can lose her to another man. Who is to be blame for that?

Women at times feel lonely when the husbands do not spend the needed time with them. Hello! Remember that women have feelings and they are not just machines.Many women leave for other men because of the love and affection that is shown by these men which they do not get from their husbands.Some husbands have beautiful loving wives at home but they seek the company of other women.That is really unfair to the wife you see.You loved her and got married to your wife. There was something special in her that you saw the first time that made you to get married to your wife. Now after all the years,all you ever do is to complain about her weaknesses. Everything is wrong in her.But to the eyes of another man, she could be a woman that every man wants.You can lose your wife to another if your attitude towards her is to always comment negatively about her! Who is to be blame for that?

Do not compare your wife to other woman and make her feel small. Never ever hit a woman. This is also another reason where woman find comfort in another man’s arms and worst of all if this man can understand the feelings of a woman. You will sure to lose your wife to another man. Compliment her in whatever she does. Let it be her cooking or the way she dresses.Most women love compliments. I will not deny that. I love compliments too! Most women need tender loving care in their marriage. As I said, marriage is a fragile matter and needs to be taken care of with great care.Treat your wife as a wife and not as your slave. She is no slave to you. In Genesis 2:18 as it is written, The Lord God said,”It is not good for the man to be alone.I will make a helper suitable for him.” See, God had to create a woman to be a helper for man.So husbands should appreciate their wives who have been ordained by God to be their helpers. Treat them well because God created them.

Above all, never ever suspect your wife of having an affair with another person when she has never ever done it. But when you go on pushing her and accusing her of things that she has not done then she will be pushed to do it. There you go again and you will lose her to another man! Who is to be blame for that? Men love your wife and give her all the love that you have.Rekindle the flame of love that you both had once.She is a beautiful doe right in front of your eyes.You married her because you loved her and there was something beautiful in her that made you want to marry her. It is never too late my beloved ones to save your marriage. Marriage is ordained by God. Put God in your marital life and surrender all things into His hands. GOD STILL WORKS MIRACLES! Do give a thought on that my beloved ones. Keeping all married couples in my prayer.







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